Growing up is difficult task. Do you suffering from hopeless? or still don't know what happen in last few years. The reason is you think that you have done all the things you should do. May be you have planed you last year (2010). May be you have achieved some targets. But still you are in same position. Because you didn't do one major thing you should do. That is very important thing if we are looking for some upgrade of our life. First you should change the way you think. That is the most important thing. Suppose, You make a vow to get a promotion, but you didn't work 100% or you skip some hard parts. You don't like to face difficult situations & get more experience. But you think you have done the job, because you get paid. That's not the way you get promotions. Work honestly !!! whether others criticized you.
Do 100% what you do. Make yourself first. And do not forget to pay yourself first. The concept is as simple as constructing a strong foundation before building along lasting house on a bare plot of land;so your life can become as strong as this beautiful house where you can live truly happy lives in. In your priority list, you should get first place. If you treat you well that's how you treat others. Suppose you have some ill. If you get medicine you get better. Otherwise get weak; if you are the main actor of your family what happen to family...? This is not a being selfish. Nothing happen by chance. There's reason for everything. Finally all I can say is make your first step in true world & don't live in dreams but keep target which makes you happy and make world beautiful.
This is my first article that I have ever write. I apologize if there's a any mistake.